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Many of us think long and hard about getting married, but not everyone thinks as carefully about what kind of marriage we are going choose. We look at some of the complexities facing young couples when they choose to get married today, both from a legal and a customary perspective.
South Africa has complex traditional customs that need to be followed when considering marriage. In addition to our customs, South Africans can choose between three types of marriage as defined by our laws: a Civil Marriage, a Civil Union and a Customary Marriage, or not getting married at all.
With our complex customary traditions, one might feel as though the legal requirements of registering your customary marriage with Home Affairs are overwhelming and unnecessary. So why should you do it?
Customary Marriages are regulated by the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act (“RCMA”). According to the Act, not registering a customary marriage does not invalidate it. However, the Act does require the spouses concerned to register the marriage within three months of the ceremony and to provide proof that it followed custom. These requirements are there to provide factual evidence that the marriage took place, should there be any doubt later.
The RCMA stipulates these requirements for a customary marriage to be valid:
This evidence can be presented to the registering officer to prove that the marriage took place and fulfilled the requirements of the RCMA.
The definition of “celebrations” under the Act is quite broad, so it is recommended that the couple be very careful of the events that they celebrate publicly, as this can later be used as proof that a marriage took place. Even if the bride has not yet been handed over to her husband’s family!
Before starting negotiations for the marriage, the couple needs to decide on the matrimonial regime that they want to apply to their marriage. The default matrimonial regime in our country is in community of property. If their intention is to marry out of community of property, the couple need to enter into an Antenuptial Contract before the marriage. Should they want to change the status of their marriage after the wedding, or should one spouse die intestate, they will need to bring an application to the High Court. If the marriage was not registered, it will need to be first registered, and only then can the Application be made for a declaratory order.
Case law, as well as recent Amendments to the Act gave wives to a customary marriage joint and equal proprietary rights within the marriage. These changes mean that, despite customary gender roles, women are protected within their marriages under the Constitution, and are covered by the same rights as wives in a Civil marriage or Union.
Ending a customary marriage follows the exact same procedure as any other kind of marriage in South Africa. Under the Act, the couple is required to petition for a decree of divorce which can be granted after the presiding officer is satisfied that the marriage has reached such a stage of disintegration that there is irretrievable break down of the marriage relationship between the parties.
Albeit valid, but if the marriage was not registered originally with Home Affairs, the couple will need to bring an Application to the High Court in the absence of proof of the existence of the marriage. Once the Court is satisfied of the existence of the marriage, the divorce may be granted if the Court is once again satisfied that the marriage relationship has irretrievably broken down.
It is important to keep this information in mind when you begin to think about marriage. Trying to change aspects of your marriage after the ceremony can become very complicated and time consuming, which becomes costly. Our advisors can help you plan the legalities of your marriage and make recommendations before the negotiations, which will save you and the families a lot of energy later.
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