Online Harassment: The Digital Threat Women Can’t Ignore

Online Harassment: The Digital Threat Women Can’t Ignore
Cyberbullying and cyberstalking aren’t just online problems — they have real-world consequences. Here’s how to fight back.

Cyberbullying and stalking don’t just hurt online — they can turn dangerous. Learn how to protect yourself and your rights.

Tina Mahlanza
Tina Mahlanza - Legal Advisor
2 July 2025 | 5 minute read
SHUT IT DOWN
ONLINE THREATS ARE REAL
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💬 A New Battlefront: Women & Online Abuse

As South Africa honours Women’s Day on 9 August, we celebrate courage — the kind that once marched in the streets… and now fights in the digital world.
Because for too many women, harassment doesn’t stop at the front door — it follows them into their inbox, their WhatsApp, their Instagram DMs.

And it’s not just annoying. It’s terrifying. It’s isolating. And it’s illegal.

🛑 What Is Cyberbullying?

Cyberbullying is when someone uses technology — like a phone, computer, or social media — to threaten, hurt, embarrass, or humiliate you.

It’s bullying, but online. And it often feels worse, because it’s public, permanent, and can happen 24/7.

Common examples affecting women:

💬 Nasty or threatening WhatsApp messages from exes or strangers

📸 Revenge porn (sharing intimate images without your consent)

Being removed or excluded from group chats or workplace platforms

🗣️ Comment sections filled with insults about your appearance or opinions

📲 Fake social media accounts impersonating or attacking you

🧨 Doxxing — posting your home address or phone number online

🔗 Spreading edited images or false stories to shame you publicly

👀 What Is Cyberstalking?

Cyberstalking is when someone repeatedly uses digital tools to monitor, follow, or threaten you. It’s about control. It’s about fear.

And it often starts small — a message here, a follow there — but escalates fast.

It can look like:

🚨 Dozens of DMs after you stop replying

🔐 Hacking into your email, social media, or location apps

🕵️ Watching your online activity obsessively

🤖 Using fake accounts to monitor or harass you

📞 Calling from unknown numbers or texting from burner phones

🗺️ Showing up at places you posted about (like school pickups or weekend plans)

📍 Where Does It Happen?

There’s no limit to where cyberbullying or stalking can occur. It can happen through:

📱 WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal

💻 Email and SMS

📸 Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Twitter (X)

💘 Dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, etc.)

🎮 Gaming platforms and live streams

💼 Work apps like Microsoft Teams or Slack

🧑‍🏫 Online learning platforms or parenting forums

🚨 When Online Abuse Becomes a Physical Threat

Many women think, “It’s just online — I’ll ignore it.”

But cyber abuse often becomes real-world violence. Here's how:

  • Someone finds your location from your posts or IP address
  • Threats turn into stalking at your work or kids’ school
  • Revenge porn or doxxing leads to blackmail
  • Leaked personal info puts your safety — and your family's — at risk

Don’t wait until it gets physical. The law is already on your side.

🧠 Know Your Legal Rights

South African law protects you through

Protection from Harassment Act

Cybercrimes Act

Films & Publications Act

Electronic Communications & Transactions Act

These laws allow you to

  • Apply for protection orders, even for digital abuse
  • Report cybercriminals to police (SAPS and Cybercrime Units)
  • Take legal action for damages to your dignity and mental health
  • Get court orders to remove harmful content

🛡️ What Can You Do?

You are never to blame. But you can act.

Smart Safety Steps

📸Save evidence: Take screenshots of messages, posts, numbers, and usernames

🧾Log everything: Dates, times, platforms, and witnesses

🚫Block and report the person on each platform

📍Turn off geotagging on apps like Instagram or Facebook

🔐Use strong passwords and enable two-factor authentication

🧠Limit sharing contact info to people you know and trust

🙅Don’t respond to bait — it can escalate or be twisted against you

What to Avoid (This Isn’t Blame — It’s Protection)

  • Avoid clicking unknown links, even if they seem personal or urgent
  • Avoid sharing your exact location online in real time

Avoid relying solely on in-app reporting if it’s persistent — get legal help too

💬 You’re Not Alone. You’re Protected

At Legal&Tax, we don’t just care — we act.

We offer:

🧑‍⚖️ Legal advice on how to report cyberbullying and stalking

📲 My AI Lawyer on WhatsApp — quick, private, always-on

🧠 Trauma counselling to help you process and recover

👩‍⚖️ Guidance through protection order applications

💪 This Women’s Month, Take Back Control

Digital abuse is real. But so is your power to fight back.
Let’s shut down cyberbullying — one brave woman, one smart action at a time.

With Legal&Tax, you're not alone

Digital abuse is real. But so is your right to fight it.

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